Discipling Life

Most of us know what it feels like to want proof that we matter. Sometimes people point to achievements, appearances, titles, or accomplishments as signs of worth. If you are wealthy enough or powerful enough, you can have your name emblazoned on a building. Other times, we may quietly compare ourselves to others and wonder if we measure up. The pressure to impress can creep into every corner of life, including our faith. We may feel tempted to present ourselves as stronger, holier, or more successful than we truly are. In Galatians 6:11-18 , Paul writes with deep urgency and honesty. He warns against those who are more concerned with outward appearances than inward transformation. Then he says, “May I never boast of anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ” (v. 14). Paul reminds the church that faith is not about earning status or proving spiritual superiority. It is about the grace of God revealed in Christ. The cross changes how we see ourselves and how we see others. Pa...

Meanwhile, standing near the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, here is your son.’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home. After this, when Jesus knew that all was now finished, he said (in order to fulfill the scripture), ‘I am thirsty.’ A jar full of sour wine was standing there. So they put a sponge full of the wine on a branch of hyssop and held it to his mouth. When Jesus had received the wine, he said, ‘It is finished.’ Then he bowed his head and gave up his spirit. (John 19:25b-30, NRSVue) There are moments in life when words fail us, when all we can do is stand, watch, and weep. Good Friday is one of those moments. The scene at the cross is not polished or comfortable; it is raw, aching, and holy. Yet even here, amid the nois...