Discipling Life

You probably remember “Open the Eyes of My Heart” Paul Baloche. He based the lyrics on Ephesians 1:18, “so that, with the eyes of your heart enlightened, you may perceive what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance among the saints.” The version I was most familiar with was the recording by Sonicflood. Michael W. Smith also made a recording that was highly popular. Perhaps you still sing it occasionally in your worship or other gatherings. While the song captures the majesty of the apostle Paul’s writing, the apostle expresses his desire for the Ephesians (and us) in his prayers. Have you ever told someone, “I’m praying for you,” and then paused to wonder what exactly to pray? In moments when words feel thin or situations feel beyond fixing, prayer can become less about changing circumstances and more about opening hearts. The apostle Paul gives us one of those prayers here in this letter to the Ephesians. It is a prayer that reaches d...

Mother’s Day is a beautiful day for many people, but it can also be a difficult one. Some celebrate with joy and gratitude. Others carry grief for mothers who are gone, strained relationships, infertility, miscarriage, loneliness, or the pain of unmet hopes. Some mothers are weary and overwhelmed. Others quietly wonder if anyone notices the sacrifices they make each day. On this day, the church holds space for both joy and sorrow, trusting that God meets us in all of it. Scripture often speaks of God’s tender care in ways that reflect the nurturing love many have experienced through mothers. The prophet Isaiah writes, “As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you” (Isaiah 66:13a, NRSVue). These words remind us that God’s love is personal, gentle, and near. Whether this day brings celebration or heartache, God sees each person fully and lovingly. Mother’s Day can also remind us that family is not always simple. Some people have known deep love from their mothers, while othe...

Have you ever tried to follow a rule so carefully that you missed the point of it? I have heard it said, “Rules without love are mean, but love without rules is meaningless.” It reminds me of the words of Martin Luther King, Jr . “What is needed is a realization that power without love is reckless and abusive and that love without power is sentimental and anemic.” Rules can guide us, but they are not meant to replace the heart behind them. In Matthew 5:17-20 , Jesus says, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets; I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.” He goes on to say that not even the smallest part of the law will pass away until all is accomplished. At first glance, that can feel heavy, like an impossible standard. But Jesus is not tightening the rules to trap us. He is revealing their true purpose. The law was always meant to lead us into a life shaped by love of God and neighbor. It is not a cold checklist. It is an invitation into a life shaped by ...

What have you done for me lately? Yes, it is the title of a 1986 hit by Janet Jackson , but the saying goes back much further, at least to the 1950s. It reflects what some people refer to as hedonic adaptation . It means we get so used to the way things were yesterday we expect more today. It echoes the sentiment in John 6, where Jesus notes that followers are seeking him not for the spiritual significance of miracles, but because he provided food, asking implicitly what he can do for them immediately: “you are looking for me not because you saw signs but because you ate your fill of the loaves.” (v. 26) Sometimes our prayer life may reflect a bit of that attitude. Sometimes we begin to treat God as a Cosmic Vending Machine . If we just put in enough prayer coins we should get what we want. After all, didn’t Jesus say, “If in my name you ask me for anything, I will do it?” (John 14:14) Of course, right after that he says, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” (v. 15) So, ho...

There are moments when love is more than a feeling. It shows up in the choices we make when no one is watching. It takes shape in patience, in forgiveness, in staying when it would be easier to walk away. We often say love matters, but Jesus invites us to live as though it truly does. In John 14:15-21 , Jesus says, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” Then he offers a promise: “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Advocate, to be with you forever” (vv. 15-16). Love and obedience are not burdens here. They are signs of relationship. As we respond to Christ’s love, we are not left to figure it out on our own. The Spirit comes alongside us, guiding and strengthening us in ways we could never accomplish by ourselves. Embracing this relationship, we begin to experience the holiness of heart and life that God desires for us. Our response to God’s love is not merely passive; it requires our active participation. This is where the cooperative work of grace comes into...

We are living in difficult and divided times, where politics, religion, and faith can pull people apart instead of bringing them together. Many of us feel the weight of that strain in our conversations, our communities, and even within our own hearts. Yet Christ meets us right here, not with more noise, but with a quiet and steady presence. He reminds us that we are not alone, and that his peace is still available to us, even when the world feels unsettled. As we lean into his love, we are gently shaped into people who can listen with care, respond with grace, and carry a calm spirit into anxious places. In this way, even in a divided world, we can become small signs of God’s healing and hope. In his first letter, the apostle Peter speaks directly to people living in difficult times. He encourages them by saying, “Now who will harm you if you are eager to do what is good? But even if you do suffer for doing what is right, you are blessed. Do not fear what they fear, and do not be int...